What Attracts Can Repel

Ever notice you can be drawn to a person by certain characteristics, then later those very same traits start to repel you?!  Initially, you may think wow...they are worldy, educated, spontaneous, free spirited, up for anything and you want to be a part of all that.  After a while worldy becomes pretentious.  Educated becomes a know-it-all.  Spontaneous becomes unreliable.  Free spirited becomes unfaithful or disloyal.  Up for anything becomes irresponsible.  Not all the time, but sometimes.  It's the weirdest dichotomy and I think we've all experienced this phenomenon at some point in our lifetimes.  Am I right?
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