In Reverse

I've been on a dating website now for a few months.  I paid for 6 months membership, but I am considering deleting my profile completely.  Here's why.  I feel like I'm doing this in reverse.  It's not hard to make a connection on line.  I can talk to anybody about anything.  It is not as easy to find a physical connection, however.  I need to feel some kind of attraction and photos aren't always the best gauge.  I don't like to hurt people's feelings.  Last week, I met a guy who was fun to talk to, but I knew immediately I wasn't physically attracted to him.  He was also moving way too fast, so I thought that would be my out.  Hey, thanks for sharing some time with me, but we're operating at different speeds.  Good luck to you, I know you'll do just fine finding someone who will be moving at your speed!  Unfortunately, he wouldn't let it go.  Lot's of questions, what changed for me, what can he do to keep me interested, what if he slows down some, etc.  Oh boy.  Why can't he take my graceful bow out and go on to the next girl that pops up on his page?!

Let's face it.  You have to feel a physical attraction in order for it to go anywhere.  I can talk to anyone, but with no attraction, we're back at square one.  I dunno if on line dating is my answer.  I'd still recommend on line dating sites to anyone with a busy schedule, but I may point out you will be moving in reverse.  Be prepared to .  I think I'll try the ole organic method.  Meet someone, feel a physical attraction, then learn more about them.  Because it all starts with sexual chemistry, then maybe that's where and how I start?  I need to take this out of reverse and put it in drive!