Ahhhh, Social Media....

Post Irma, we're back with power and wifi.  YES! 
So begins the scroll through social media.  Wanna catch up with folks lives and how they are.  Oh, noooo.  Someone I care about is getting divorced.  I'm surprised, but why? 
We all know you can't always believe the image people create for themselves on social media.
I guess the marriage wasn't as picture perfect as it was painted on line. 

​ I notice someone commented "it ain't over until BOTH of you say it is.  Do whatever you have to do, but don't let her go if you're not ready.".  So....the implication is one should stalk, grovel, obsess, possibly terrify the other person & refuse to go on with your life?  Is that right?  Well.  Because I don't know this person, there's no way to gauge the tone of the comment.  I'm holding out hope it's an inside joke.  Because last I checked, if ONE of you wants out, it's over.  That's all it takes.  For ONE of you to tap out.  You don't keep wrestling your opponent when they tap out, the match is over and the referee calls it.  In this case, the judge will call it.  It takes TWO to tango and ONE to bring your parade of social media posts depicting the picture perfect love affair to a screeching halt.  It takes TWO of you to have a partnership, so if ONE is done, the partnership is no longer.  Period.  Who is this clown that thinks it ain't over until you both say it is?  Sounds creepy to me & I pray this cat is not a marriage counselor or life coach.​